Hey everyone, a long story short my ex girlfriend broke up with me 18 days ago after dating for 8 months and moving in for 2 month's. She texted me how she was proud of me that I got a new Job, this was after 18 days of NC and I believe she found out through facebook. I did text her back and this led to a hour and a half phone call.
Her reason for leaving was unclear and we discussed that and it was because she basically had a break down while living here and felt she was losing herself. She has struggled with depression in the past and I truly believe her that she had a melt down.
The convo then kinda went to a weird place, we talked about old times which loosened her up a bit. Then it seemed like she was trying to get a reaction out of me and told me that she was dating a celebrity and that he treats her great, blah, blah, blah but was joking the whole time. I think she expected me to get pissed I instead said oh really well I'm dating Kim Kardashian, and said that we have all these plans and she's great in bed.... We finished the convo by deciding that we would get together in a few days for lunch. I'm not sure how to take this phone call, it wasn't terrible but not what i wanted to hear either, and really don't feel like playing these head games of jealousy,my life's fine without you....I'd much rather prefer when we meet up to just get it all out there and see what happens?
My questions are do you think she was trying to make me jealous by telling me about her fake celeb relationship? Was she trying to figure out if I would get jealous, and because I counter acted it and played into the joke did I do the right thing? Should I go back to no contact until the meeting? Would a few funny joke around texts be a good idea? I do want her back or at least not burn the bridge and see what happens when we meet up. Any advice would be great,Thanks.