I have been thinking about this and I want to meet up with my ex... we are on talking terms (kinda.) I am doing No contact but plan on trying to meet up with her in June. What should I say so I can get her to meet up with me? PLEASE if you have nothing Constructrive or positive to say PLEASE DONT RESPOND. thank you. This is something I feel i need to do.. i am not going to beg, or plead or anything of the sort. I just feel I need to lay it all out (tell her im ok with the breakup, list the issues, and tell her I want to reconcile.) and if its meant to be theres nothing I can say to ruin it... if its not I think this is the closure I can obtain. My first step is getting her to meet up with me though... how does this sound (I will send this probably June 6th or around there..."Hey, hows it going? I am going to florida on June 10th, can you meet up with me at the ***** at 615?"