Bad timing, amazing girl, impatient me.

[HeartIsAching]

Ya that is a pretty easy answer surfhb, but the thing is girls like this, well they don't just come along, at all really. As I said before when I meet a girl I pretty much make a snap judgement, decide that she is not someone I would want to be with for any amount of time, and don't waste my time. Has this served me well, certainly not I lack experience now clearly. However this is how I am and I do not know if it is particularly mutable.
This girl however is awesome. She is so many things I am looking for, definitely girlfriend material, I really want to find out more. Yes she is making herself to be a headache and it is completely unfair to me that she simply cuts and runs like this- however if she ever does get this other clown out of her head I do not think it will be like that. Perhaps I am wrong, but I doubt it. So really the question is- is there really anything I can do to assist this girl in getting this clown out of her head. I do not know that there is, but I know for certain that 'never talking to this person again', will not facilitate that.

We shall see, maybe she will never place that impulse phone call I am expecting, and maybe I won't do the same, maybe she will stay with him.

All the same, 2 votes for Run, dually noted lol

In that case, don't be impatient. I waited 20 years for my wife to free herself.

[surfhb]

Yes she is making herself to be a headache and it is completely unfair to me that she simply cuts and runs like this- however if she ever does get this other clown out of her head I do not think it will be like that. Perhaps I am wrong, but I doubt it. So really the question is- is there really anything I can do to assist this girl in getting this clown out of her head. I do not know that there is, but I know for certain that 'never talking to this person again', will not facilitate that.

Re-read what you just wrote and tell me how this girl is worth any effort? This bitch is a head case man! She doesnt give a **** about you! There's nothing you can to do help get rid of this guy. So how can we help you fool?

[realisticbound]

If you two do wound up together, it's probably gonna be in your head that in the back of her mind you're not the person she really wants to be with.