Originally Posted by
Petit Papillon
Is it a LDR from the beginning? Do you both have some date set up when you no longer will be in LDR ? This all is important . Also how often do you see each other ? I am currently in a LDR after almost 2 years of living together with my bf. We just decided that I need to go back to study , to be able to support the family together with my bf . We also set the date that as soon as I get my bachelor , we move in together , I also learn french now in case we move to France . Plus we see each other at least once a month , plus we spend all the free time, holidays, christmas and so together . In the end we spend at least 5 out of 12 months together which helps keeping it cool . And TRUST , trust is very important . So in your case, you either meet not too often, or there was a cheating issue in your relationship or you just don't have any plan for the future so she gets frustrated and doesn't know if it's even worth being in this relationship . And seriously I don't see a reason to be in a LDR if it's not for studying or working somewhere (but just for some period of time ) . And of course it's always better to bond before going apart , cause you will not feel as much attachment to someone who you grew attached to for some longer time as to a person you know only for few weeks (in real life ) . True story .