Some advice/opinions would be great

[bigdaddy863]

dude i would call her regardless of wut happened u guys were friends at 1 time yea now u have a history that complicates things but if u guys r still friends u r still leaving the doore open for something in the future maby

[elijah121]

I don't know about that. If i tlak to her i wouldnt give myself the chance to let go, it would be hard because i would always know what she is doing, if she is seeing someone else, and that would break me. I don't think that i want something to happen again in the near future, Im looking for maybe next year when i graduate in August. She is immature, she doesnt know what she wants, 2 weeks ago she wanted to try and work things out between us, then all of a sudden she doesnt see us in her future, and she was looking for all the small reasons to let me go. She said she wants me to find another girl so that she has no choice but to move on. I love her i really do tremendously but she needs to grow up alot. We are only 24 and sometimes she expects tooooo much from me and i of her. I don't think contact would be a good idea for both of us because it would stop both of us from experiencing new things because we are extreamly attracted to eachother. I think it is best this way especially for myself. ?

[elijah121]

Any one else's opinion?

[elijah121]

Its been 1 week of NC, i still think about her but i feel like I am getting over her. I wrote down all the bad things in our relationship because people tend to forget all the bad things and only remember the good memories. I realized that she isn't for me, all the things she did. She tells our mutual friends all the bad things i did to her, and what she is doing right now knowing they are going to tell me because they always do, why she is doing this i don't know but i really dont care. The only thing that would of hurt is if she sleeps with someone else, but i played that in my head a thousand times, and it doesnt anymore, i realized i was just too confortabale to let go even though it wasn't healthy for me to stay "trying to fix" our relationship. I guess we all realize sooner or later. Everyone wants what they cant have and when there is a break up the person who broke up takes control of the situation of your choices for that moment, but you have to realize you control your life and your happiness don't be down because someone else made you live for you. One day they will realize what they had if you were good to them and they will feel it.