insecurites caused her to cheat. should i stay or should i go?

[jb1111983]

F**k! cheating is cheating. Age has nothing to do with it.

[Petit Papillon]

Well , I'm 22 and I actually can wash my own poopoo and am nowhere near your description. But I know where you're coming from, I see lot of 19 and 20yo on the university that are still drawing hearts in their notebooks and are screaming when someone starts to talk about Edward from Twilight . On the other hand, I know few guys at age of 28 or even older, and they are nowhere near having their shit together . Like,seriously.

[oldskool83]

some are gonna do it, some wont. i think its set early on, i also think once ya start it can be use as a way out alot of times....hmm prob the main reason for this site.

[oldskool83]

i agree with ya petit. not everyone falls it what i think, that from my experance or a safe general rule. theres tons of guys i know still living at home with mom or dad, no cares in the world, eat every meal with them and dont got the shit together...women in genral will get there act together faster then a man i think...im a man saying that. i owned a home, fulltime job, cars, cycles, had a mortage, was doing home improvement all that stuff at 23 and i was married...not somthing i see alot.

some people are just more domesticated then other and actuly get it

[Petit Papillon]

You know I came back to live with my mother cause i came back to the univeristy as well (after 2 years of break - where yeah i was sorting my shit hehe ) and I live with her purely cause of practical and of course financial reasons . I am spending few months a year well 5 out of 12 in Spain with my bf and the other months (for another 2 years) ,so it would be ****ed up to pay for the flat during that time, especially cause i need to pay for my school alone and i also pay the tickets to spain constantly and so.. I had arguments with my mother where I was really ready to move my ass out of her house to be in peace, but she threatened me that she would stop to talk to me, long story ,whatever . My point is , people grow up depending on how their parents let them. I basically since I was 18 , was living on my own,abroad , well first try didnt work out good but after that i met my bf and he helped me grow up a lot . Just don't judge by the age . But in OP's case, she is immature ... But not because of her age, because she just didn't grow up,maybe she didn't have the chance to .

PS. about motherhood, I have lot of ex class and school mates that became mothers between 18-20 and they freaking are kids themselves . I see only party party party, even if the kids are at home and they are even married. That's why i wait for my baby, in case i freak out and want to party a bit more ,with my bf of course :p