I've been seeing this guy for a few months now and everything has been going great. Here is the problem....he told me yesterday that his ex is moving back in "temporarily". I've met her, she knows about us, I know they are not in any way getting back together. They have a 2 year old together and she got kicked out of her mom's house and is now homeless basically. I told him that I get it. It's the mother of his child, he can't in good conscience leave her like that. He had expected me to throw a fit about it and was surprised when I didn't. I'm a very logical person so that's just not my style.
My problem is that I only spend significant time with him every other weekend because I also have a kid and he lives an hour away. I just feel like this is going to effect my time with him. It isn't like any of us want me staying the weekend when she is there. He swore that it won't be an issue and she'll just have to go stay with a friend when I come up. I have serious doubts about how long he is gonna tell her to leave for the weekend though. Plus the whole thing is just weird.....
He could come to my place but that really isn't gonna happen because he is an hour away and only has a motorcycle. The weather has been horrible lately so I just know that's not feasible.
Is this just doomed now?