Originally Posted by
honedog
Hi, this is my first post so bear with me!
So my dilemma is: I really like this girl but she has made it quite clear she only wants to be mates! Ive just had a phone call off my mate(who knows i like this girl) saying that she has told him she likes him and that he likes her, and was going to see how things go, and was wondering if i was ok with this??
In all honesty i'm not, but i do realise i will never be with this girl but feel more betrayed by him for doing this!
Am i just been selfish, and should i just be happy for them both??
Cheers for any advice
Pfffft! Be happy for them. She told you she's only interested in being a friend with you so it's not like you have a mutual physical attraction. You certainly don't want her if she doesn't want to jump your bones every chance she can, do you? .. I think not.
Time to find your own sweet thang and then you can double date with your two good friends
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion