Cums but no orgasm?

[alexandraboo]

Last night my bf and I had sex, he initiated it.... I asked him if having an orgasm made him tired, he simply replied, I diddnt have an orgasm.... But he jizzed?

I am confused, he says sometimes he just doesnt orgasm.... I remember him telling me once in tha past that he doesnt orgasm when he masturbaits, but I make him orgasm during sex. Is it possible for a man to cum but not cum? LOL and what causes it, he is into quickies sometimes, because he is tired and we have to go to bed because he works a lot, but when he has time he takes the time to have proper sex.

I need guys advice for this !

[maxmax]

If he cums, he's having an orgasm.

But just because he cums, and hence orgasms, doesn't necessarily means he particullary enjoyed himself.

Don't know what else he is trying to say.

[Wakeup]

It is possible to ejaculate without having an orgasm, just as it's possilbe to have an orgasm without ejaculating as when the ejaculate goes into the bladder instead of out the penis or after several ejaculations there is none left to spurt out. Or he's tantric and has trained himself to be able to orgasm without losing his erection.

Google is your friend. Google "ejaculation without orgasm" and you will find lots to read.

[DannyH]

Orgasms and ejaculations are two seperate things that just happen for us guys to happen at the same time doesn't mean they always do. My personal experiences go if I'm waaaay out of whack tired stressed or what then my girl wants sex i'll do it and it's a rarity the same thing happens because well I'm just not that in to it and didn't really enjoy it. on the other hand I had it happen the otherway around as well. Got with this one girl who needed sex all the time. Nympho's really are overrated btw I found that it could be the other way around.

[alexandraboo]

I like sex a lot, and when he doesnt have sex with me for a long time, I get upset and start to feel sad about myself, he might feel he has to have sex with me to keep me happy. He is affectionate, he tells me he loves me lots and cuddles me and kisses me. Claims he is still attracted to me sexually and thinks I am pretty.... Not sure whats going on here... I know he likes porn a lot... not sure if it has anything to do with it...?

[vashti]

It's called ejaculatory anhedonia, and yes, he orgasms, but simply doesn't experience the same level of pleasure you'd expect. If this is an issue, he should see a urologist.