You actually sound somewhat manic to me, based on your posts. Addiction? I know a few entrepreneurs like this. Money is certainly no barrier to irresponsibility in other areas. As to letting women know how they should behave, that is just weird thinking, at least for my mindset. In my case, I never thought like that, I was always comparing compatibilities and how well I thought we might fit. I had a very specific set of criteria I was looking for.
I bet you have trouble attracting mentally healthy women. You should ask your therapist about this.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh