I'm still wondering why you think giving and receiving head isn't having "sex." They don't call it oral SEX for nothing. Perhaps you should start asking your men if they've ever had INTERCOURSE
I suspect we would be more open minded to your liking if you actually answered any of our questions rather than by-pass them completely?
Anyway, perhaps you should explain yourself and your culture precisely in the future so that we know your ways. Then you won't have to assume that we're "close minded" while you're being mis-leading.
Happy sex acts. I'm sure you'll be able to figure out if this was just a one off lie or it's a pattern with him if you give it some time. You never did answer how long you've been seeing him.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion