where to begin. my boyfriend just broke up with me three days ago over the phone after being out of town for job training for a week and ignoring me that entire week. i feel like this has just come out of nowhere...i mean i know a lot of people say this but i really did not do anything to warrant a break up. i feel like both of us are in a rather rough patch of our lives right now with a lot of stress and i guess that started to affect our relationship. i do not have contact with my mother or sisters because they harass me and are potent in my life...well they also had begun to harass my ex...which took a toll on our relationship. however, i can't control that and i just don't think it's right that that is being taken out on me. it would be one thing if they were a part of my life, but they're not...i tried telling him to block their numbers and/or ignore them but he just kept saying that it will never go away and he cant deal with it. before he left for job training we got into an argument about my family issues...he left me sitting in my car crying and just took off for a week. ignored my texts and calls for the majority of the week. when he finally decided to talk, he tells me that he can't be in a relationship anymore. he says that things have changed since the beginning of our relationship (normal) and that he is tired of trying to make it work. i mean we have our fair share of fights, but nothing that cant be talked about and fixed and moved on from. i mean i feel like he expects to never fight...he also says that he needs to work on himself before he can be in a relationship and that it's not good for either of us to be together. most recently, he told me he wants nothing to do with me and that i am no longer welcome at his house. i don't know...i mean i guess i just feel a bit overwhelmed and slighted. he claims to love me and says that he cares and thats not the problem but that he can't do it anymore. idk, i guess i just feel that if he really loved me he would want to work things out. i love him so much and i don't want to lose him...i just don't know what to do. any advice?