My boyfriend and i, we have problems. I love him to bits, i love being with him, he makes me happier than anything..When we are good..Together, we constantly laugh together, we are so affectionate with one another, i cant explain the bliss i feel when we are together and good.
Now, he has extreme jealousy issues. I wouldnt mind it too much, his jealousy isnt what bothers me. If he just got upset and wanted reassurance that i wasnt doing anything bad, or just wanted me to show him im all his, i would be okay with it. But instead of getting upset, he gets angry.. At me.
He will tell me he hates me, tell me i make him sick, says its over constantly when anything comes up with another guy contacting me in any way.
Why does he get angry at me? And how should I act when he does this? Up until now i have tried reassuring him, telling him i love him and saying not to worry etc.. It occurs to me, this might be fuelling it. Maybe it is allowing him to be like this more often etc..
This morning a man i work along side text me sarcastically telling me to have a good day (it was my day off). He is managing the store himself today and wasnt looking forward to it. I have ZERO attraction to this guy so to me it was nothing.. My boyfriend had read it before i even woke up. I woke up to him shaking, saying this was a joke, that he knows a nice text is all it takes to get in my pants?? Saying i make him sick.
I spent all morning trying to hug him and explain to him but he wouldnt listen.
He went off to work and now is texting me saying its over, he cant stand being with a 'girl like me' and accusing me of lying that im alone.
How should i act with him? Should i be strict and and tell him to only contact me when he has nice things to say? I dont know what i should do, without being a 'non-caring girlfriend'..
Thanks for the advice and sorry its long! I wanted to get all the facts in for accurate advice.