I am going through a rough patch with an ex I'm not looking to being with him or anything of that nature. Just need closure and to know if he still cares. He just had a baby by another girl while we were broken up for 4 months but was still together sexually. It's making me really insecure, I can't even go shopping without thinking of the baby when I see baby things. I dont know at one point I thought I was pregnant when we were in a relationship. I know we don't work but I always have that what if? In the back of my mind. He said we wouldn't work because I dont trust him.......I know he isn't with the girl but only time will tell. What should I do ladies?