Unless you have plans to move where this guy lives now, don't be playing with this guys heart. If you don't have any plans on getting back and having a relationship with this man, then don't be stringing him along. He says he still loves you and if you don't still love this man, don't be giving him false hope. If you plan on going to visit him then don't have sex with him becuause you'll just cloud the issue and confuse the sex for true feelings.
Why are you entertaining this? Seriously figure that out because a long distance thng will never work for you.. I can tell by your indiciision and how you play with this guy by keeping him around when you don't seem to really want him nor can you have him when you don't live in the same country.
Just being "friends" with him when he says he still loves you is you being mean to one another. Defriend and block him and let him get over you and on with his life. Tell him what you're doing and don't let him guilt you into maintaining this contact that stagnates you both from moving on.
Last edited by Wakeup; 18-06-11 at 11:54 AM.
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