Sounds like he is bi-curious. Some guys like to try this. It doesn't mean he's gay. And it doesn't mean this will always be an interest. But he's curious, and needs to at least try something. (A bisexual likes girls and guys.)
But he is also cheating on you, which is a bad sign. When that happens, he doens't respect your feelings.
Last edited by bulrush; 15-07-11 at 11:58 PM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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