Hey all,
I need some advice.
I have been seen this girl for a few months now. We are not official, we are more like friends with benefits. I think she is a great person and is also great between the sheets but I just don't feel my heart racing every time she is near.
A few months ago I was returning from a business conference and the girl I am seeing, Linda, picked me up from the train station. When I got in the car I was very tired and I just wanted to go home and sleep. But Linda invited me to her friends birthday party. I did not really want to go since I was tired and stinky from my train ride lol. But we ended up going.
When we arrived to the house there were some people there just hanging out and I began to drink so I was a little buzz. But there was this girl there that I can't get off my mind. Something about her. She just seemed very kind and gentle and just stood out the most to me.
But I couldn't really approach her because I was with Linda and well Linda really likes me so this girl was out of reach.
I am stuck because I don't know how to tell Linda that I am not that into her. I have this desire to find the girl from the party and get to know her more. For the past 3 months I haven't been able to get her out of my mind.
Does anyone have any advice on how to break it to Linda that I am not into her?
The problem is if I push her away completely I will likely never see her friend again and well I want to pursue this girl and get to know her.
Also, am I going crazy or does love at first sight really exist?