could i have some advice please - getting a girl

[bluewahoo]

Why what?

[HeartIsAching]

Why what?

Why'd you just ask her to go for a walk?

Ask her out on a date - make it clear.

[bluewahoo]

Don't know, thats what i felt confident doing i guess...

It was pretty much asking her out though... :s

[Cerby]

If you're going to do something, make sure you do it all the way, whether it be an awesome success or a spectacular failure.

"pretty much" isn't worth anything anywhere. Balls it up and say the words, you will feel so liberated when you do.

[bluewahoo]

Ok lol, i will next time. I felt pretty drained getting myself to "ask her out" lol!

Is there anyways i can sort of hint to her that this is a date when we are there, if you know what i mean?

Thanks again all.

[Cerby]

Ok lol, i will next time. I felt pretty drained getting myself to "ask her out" lol!

Is there anyways i can sort of hint to her that this is a date when we are there, if you know what i mean?

Thanks again all.

Yep, you sure can, you can tell her "I'm glad you agreed to go out on a date with me". Boom, done.

[bluewahoo]

Yep, you sure can, you can tell her "I'm glad you agreed to go out on a date with me". Boom, done.

A bit blunt lol!

[HeartIsAching]

A bit blunt lol!

Blunt is ok. Blunt means that you avoid ambiguity. Blunt means you have a chance at getting what you want. Blunt is how I always am... and that means that I've made some dear friends and deadly enemies. So what?

[Cerby]

A bit blunt lol!

Not all all, replace "blunt" with "confident".

You've got her to go out with you (kinda). Now you need to shake those butterflies and make this happen.

[bluewahoo]

Been a bit weird today, convo been a bit slow and dead

Atleast there is the walk to dread and look forward to lol!!

[bluewahoo]

How would picking a flower and saying "for you" as a flirty comment etc..??

Any other ideas like that?

[Cerby]

How would picking a flower and saying "for you" as a flirty comment etc..??

Any other ideas like that?

A bit cheesy, but cheesy can have some success too. Its all in how to play it off.

[bluewahoo]

Any other ideas?

This thread is epic, can't thank you all enough!

[bluewahoo]

Bumpy bump!

[Mathematics]

A charming thread, bit you're stressing too much.

You are clearly very nervous, but you have no reason to be. You having nothing to fear but fear itself. You've done the hard bit and got a date. Just go and enjoy yourself. If you go along with a head full of pre-conceived ideas to try and charm her, you'll only get nervous. Spontaneity is best.

As it's a first date, maybe use it as a fact finding mission. Take interest in her but also look out for hints of attraction. You've already noticed the leg one which is a big giveaway but look out for other signs. However, all women are different so don't get all excited if she plays with her hair a lot.

At the end of the date say "Do you want to do this again next week?" or something. Show an interest in spending more time with her, and make that clear at the end of the date. You don't want to leave it to MSN to ask her out again.

Best of luck.