Originally Posted by
Wakeup
it's only been "several" (how many is "several?") dates and he's talking about living together. WTF? That is a huge red flag right there. Don't you think you should have at least declared each other bf/gf and promised each other exclusivity before talking about living together?
I agree, big red flag. I can open my heart to women in 2 dates if we are a good match. I can TALK about living together after 2 dates too, but I don't actually do it until we've dated a year or more. Big difference between talking about it, and doing it.
As for passing time, find a hobby. Make jewelry and sell it on Etsy.com. Collect something. I work out, go hiking. I only have 2-3 dates a week, so I have time for other stuff. Write a how-to article and put it on Wikihow.com. Study a topic and learn something new. Like underwater archaology. How do they do all that?
Last edited by bulrush; 27-07-11 at 03:50 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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