best friend driving me nuts!

[HeartIsAching]

Your friend gets jealous of porn... she's got some major security issues. You CAN'T fix that. You can however, let her know that she's got issues she needs to deal with, with the help of a professional, and that you ain't a professional. Sometimes honesty is the best policy.

Also, she needs to be reminded that she PROMISED you to watch your son, and let her know how upset you are about it. If she doesn't know it's pissed you off, how can she know that she needs to fix it and/or watch for that in the future? It's sort of like faking orgasms.

[MaidenMinx]

LMAO!! Thanks HIA. I have told her that I can't help her. I have told her she needs professional help and I think that is why I am starting to get blunt to the point of almost mean when she asks me what I think of how she should handle things.

Over the course of the day, I've managed to start looking forward to the family adventure rather than the second wedding night. I know our little boy will get a real kick out of having a swim in the spa and sleeping in the king size bed with us. I also just decided that before the year is out hubby and I are going to be due for a weekend away on our own and I'll get her to baby sit then. Concert season is approaching and we're expecting a nice tax return soon, maybe we can get something better out of this... hmmmm this might actually work to my advantage.

Oh and there is another reason I can't ever really write her off. She is one of 3 people our son is comfortable spending the night with, and she did babysit on our wedding night. *sigh*

Oh and yes, she is a mess, but so am I. Birds of a feather and all that. :p

[MaidenMinx]

Thank you again guys, for letting me vent and finding my perspective. I knew there was a sliver lining to this situation and now that I have found it I am stoked. :p