Hey guys
I really need a man's point of view on this one. My boyfriend and I (I guess "ex-boyfriend" is more suitable) broke up almost nine months ago. We've been friends ever since, but of course, in the back of my head, whether I admit it or not, it's always been because i've always had some kind of hope everything would be alright again.
He never gave any indication or good reason for the break-up other than "he wasn't as mad about me anymore as I was about him". (the whole story is posted under broken hearts, the name of the thread is "broken heart and the thereafter" or something like that)
Anyway, we've been friends for nine months now, we've kissed twice since the break-up, he still sleeps over regularly (nothing ever happens), but he still comfortably lies in my bed without offering to take the couch, he just naturally steps into my bed in his boxers, as if everything is the way it has always been. When I don't text him for about ten days he usually texts me first, or puts things on my facebook to get my attention. Everytime we're at the same party, he comes over and pays attention to me all night.
WHAT-DOES-HE-WANT? it confuses me. I'm trying to move on (which clearly I haven't) but it seems like he won't let me?
Thanks!
Love
Molly