So I have decided I am not ready for the dating game. I am having way to much fun being single and chillin with my friends. The issue is I am interested in FWB. One of the guys I hang with is over every day. (Our friends pretty much hang and crash at our place bc the barracks suck). Last Friday we were all chillin at my house and playing Kings (a drinking gmae). As the night wore on the one friend was getting kinda frisky with an occasional butt slap..ect. The last thing I remember is everyone going to sleep and us being outside arguing (over what I do not know).
I woke up the next morning naked in my bed with him. Then we kinda had sex again. (I think again bc I am assuming we did but neither of us recalls anything after fighting). I found my bra and underwear in the front lawn.. that was mortifying.
Anyhow... we kinda talked about it a few days later and he said he was really sorry and the first thing that came to his mind that morning was that he hoped he had not messed up a really good friendship. I told him I was cool with it and what would he think about being friends with benifits. I explained I was not interested in dating (he really is not my type for bf material) and that I just wanted it to be cool and drama free. His response "maybe" and that he would think about it since I can't do anything right now anyway. (I went and had my lower area pierced 2 days after the incident). He said he has done FWB before and it always ended with the girl being all clingy and wanting more.
What the hell does "maybe" mean? Is it "oh shit, I don't want to hurt her feelings by saying no" or is he really concerned we will mess up the friendship? I mean as a guy, if you didn't want to wouldn't you just say "no, because I am afraid this will mess up our friendship." Why would you say maybe?