Originally Posted by
Wakeup
WTF is wrong with all you young (or older) people who will rub genitals together without care but you're unable/incapable/afraid/too dumb to communicate what it is you want/need/will strive to live for?
Younger people are more able to separate emotions from sex. That's about it. It's a dangerous world. Why risk emotions when sex is "good enough"?
But yes, what Wakeup said. You must take a risk and TALK to him. Tell him what you want, and ask him what HE wants, and encourage him to be honest about it.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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