What does she feel?

[franktalk]

Hello,

I m in a relationship since 4 yrs. Because of my work i could not give much time to my gf and also could not make her feel important on her birthday as she had hoped.. She is really upset with me and feels that i don't care for her. But actually I love her a lot but cannot express. She does not talk to me much and rarely meets me, but I'm sure she loves me a lot..
Is it that she is temporarily upset? Can u pls tell me as to how to win her heart again..?

[HeartIsAching]

Because of your work? Work keeps you there 24 hours a day?

She's right.

The only way I see you "winning her back" is if you quit ignoring her, spend some time with her and quit using work as an excuse to not do so.

[maxmax]

Can u pls tell me as to how to win her heart again..?

By addressing the following:

1)

i could not give much time to my gf

So give her more of your time in future


2)

and also could not make her feel important

Easy. Try harder.


3)

But actually I love her a lot but cannot express.

Learn to express yourself, it's essential in a relationship


And ...

She does not talk to me much and rarely meets me, but I'm sure she loves me a lot. Is it that she is temporarily upset?

Yeah, I'd say she is upset.

[Vanity]

As for how she feels, it is obvious that she feels neglected.

As for a solution, talk to your boss about taking a day off and use that day to spend some much needed time with her. =) Obviously one day is not enough but it is a start.

[jb1111983]

Express your love for her in words and deeds. That's how she'll know she means something to you. She's not a telepath.