How can you tell if a woman is interested in you when first talking to her?

[surfhb]

Well, if a random guy ask you out, he interested in more than being friends. Thats always a given. Im always surprised the amount of girls who actually think were just being nice and have no further intentions? Hello?

[Vanessa]

The OP would probably always get a yellow mood ring. I say women just need to give more obvious signs. Like if they are interested, flash some boob. If they are not...well flash them anyways, but maybe flip the bird after doing so.

Yeah, "sorry mate, not interested, but here's a glimpse of my rack as consolation" haha.

Personally I don't have a problem with asking a guy out if I'm interested.

[robertdawson]

I agree with Vanessa, a surefire way to sense attraction would be great.

[sweetest]

I recently became very attracted to a guy, i did all of the following (subconciously):-

looking at him, not staring but holding my 'look' for longer, glancing and capturing eye contact when i noticed him looking at me
gently lowering and raising my eyes as I looked at him from top to toe
talking with him a lot, giggling, - he always tried to make me laugh
paid far more attention to him than anyone else who was around
looking at his lips when he was talking to me (i wanted him to kiss me)
standing facing directly towards him, feet pointing towards him (he did the same)
if he moved nearer to me i would move nearer to him and vice versa
i would play with my hair and touch my lips (all the time)!

i did all of these things and probably more without realising, i knew that i was very attracted to him, but hadn't a clue that i was making it so obvious! (blushes)!

[robertdawson]

sweetest: how old are you (may not matter but whatever)? If your actions are typical then you just made me realize that I've never noticed a woman being attracted to me. This is.. disappointing.

[sadie_genie]

Its hard to tell. Some women like to talk, even be flirtatious with men they are not really interested in. Your best bet is to ask her out on a date and see if she agree (she is interested) or if she is reluctant about it (not interested).

[robertdawson]

So even after all that there still isn't a clear answer... why does this stuff have to be so complicated!? Grrr