Robot, yes i believe a couple with the same respect and moral for themselves are very capable of having a strong and fulfilling marriage, are you saying that you couldnt love and marry someone for anyother reason then them being good in bed ?
are you assuming that unless a couple have sex before marriage they are misguided and have no foundation to start a relationship other then what they are like in the sack?
what happens when they have normal every day things to consider,ie buying a house... are you saying that becuase sex is so important they will say "ok baby first one to orgasm says yes or no to the house " or is it a case of "hey honey sorry about the car accident and you being in traction,but you know i only married you for sex so now i want a divorce"
can you really see any of this crap happening , no i cant because sex is a consummation of love, respect and trust among other things in a relationship.I dont believe sex is all in a relationship and hell im not a prude actually highly sexual and although i think other things are more important in a relationship you can damn well bet your ass on sex not being the 24/7 necessity that will enable two people to marry or live to gether for any length of time.
I suggest you poke your head out of the cave
and see if sex is so important in a relationship that all else is discounted.
Yes i do believe you can abstain from sex and have a damn good chance of having a happy decent marriage in this day and age, like i said sex 24/7 no thanks not to mention the soreness i wouldnt want a man who just wants to get laid, chances are the more sex they have with different partners the more chance of disease and the lack of morals and consideration you have for that right person.
Well unless your able to have breakfast, dinner and supper with a bowl of viagra