right choice?

[poathomson]

I was seeing someone but not in a serious relationship sortof way, and tonight I ended it. Iused to have strong feelingsforhim but that was before he was flirting with other girls around me(im not the obsessivly jealous type, I dont consider any talk with another girl to be flirting), and then tried to change me, said he didnt like my fashion, said i should takecareof myself with waxing and wearing more makeup, and could loose a couple pounds(I am in no way big, i have abit oflove handles but thats all). Tonight I sorta put us on hold, and am considering ending it completely, he kept saying he cares about me and things he said were jokes, and then that he isnt gunna not flirt with girls if their goodlooking and hes interested. Just feel like i am being used until something else comes along, was it the right choice to end it or should i have tried to work it out?

[pisces25]

You did the right thing he sounds like a jerk and was trying to mould you into something he finds more attractive. He may say they are jokes but with jokes like that have a element of truth behind them. Good on you for ending it, his loss.

[devonbrown]

He sounds like a controlling and manipulative jerk who doesn't care about you or your feelings. Don't even worry about it, drop him quick and put him in your rear-view mirror.

Good luck.