I have a problem with a guy friend. The problem is I’m attracted to him, and I feel like I have no choice but to be attracted to him.
I am trying to understand our chemistry, how mine works and how his works and how I can put a stop to these feelings.
You see, he is a good friend, but whenever I am around him, I have to suppress the sparks from flying. It was like instantaneous when I met him.
Our chemistry blended perfectly. When we’re around each other, it’s like we become 1 unite. We mesh well chemistry wise. It’s almost like we become kindred spirits who think alike, feel alike and move alike. And we both feel “pulled” to the other. Like we have no choice. It’s like gravity pulls us together.
Our movements become one. I don’t like it…..
I feel fine when I’m away. No attraction. But when I’m near him, it starts again and I practically have to bite my tongue and become tense to resist the flow.
Sure, we’re matched chemistry wise, but what about everywhere else? Not a match in other areas. So, I am really trying to put a stop to my mind/body’s response to him but it’s like it’s almost impossible. I just want us to be friends, I don’t want romance in the way. My rational mind DOES NOT WANT TO DATE HIM. And KNOWS that it will not end well. It’s like, the only option I can think of is to avoid him…. But if I do that, then why even bother being his friend? It’s like being caught between a rock and a hard place. I just want these feelings to stop.
If I stay, I’m screwed… If I go, I’m screwed….. What to do? And how can I understand our chemistry better so I can maybe have a chance at stopping this?
Help.....