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    Why did he ask and why is he telling me?

    Why is this guy asking me how many people I have had sex with and telling me how many people he had sex with?!!

    What is he trying to say?

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    Quote Originally Posted by emily25 View Post
    Why is this guy asking me how many people I have had sex with and telling me how many people he had sex with?!!

    What is he trying to say?

    He's trying to say, "Run away, I'm an insecure control freak."

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    Without ANY other information, who knows? Was he talking about it on a date? Is he your boss at work? Are you planning on getting married? Is he a crazy person on the street?
    Come on, give us just little info...
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    sorry!! hes someone I ve had two dates with. This is over texts!! we were flirting over texts then he said he wants to know me more. He said lets ask a ques each about the other person and takes turns. he asked that.

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    is that a hint, hes wants to sleep with me? then the conversation took off as just about sex!

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    I would say that is a pretty strong hint that he would like to have sex with you. However, given the fact that he is a guy who has gone on some dates with you, I would say THAT is a pretty strong hint he would like to have sex with you. Basically, he wants to have sex. The "with you" portion of the equation is what he is trying to determine.

    If you feel he is moving too fast, just let him know you are feeling a bit uncomfortable and ask him to back it up just a bit.
    If you are cool with it, then enjoy the sexting.

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    please don't answer that question.

    The last post we need is a insecure little loser posting about how "I can't deal with my girls past" posts. DO NOT TELL... but I'm guessing you already did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by girl68 View Post
    please don't answer that question.

    The last post we need is a insecure little loser posting about how "I can't deal with my girls past" posts. DO NOT TELL... but I'm guessing you already did.
    Interesting. I don't quite know what to make from this post. Is this that best relationships are left with unanswered questions or the fact that the relationship is doomed from the beginning if the answer to that question is causing concern? What is OPs goal in that relationship? I don't know who is being more insecure, the boy who gets scared after an honest answer or the girl who is afraid to answer....

    God damn people...
    Don't expect anything.

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