Hi guys, please let me know what you think about this... recently, I told my gf that I'm working (painting, cleaning up, etc) on a house I bought recently. Basically, I said "when we marry, you don't have to do anything, I have you covered".
But... when I told her this, she said something similar to: "I like that you're taking the lead, but why don't you move to my house? it's bigger".
By bigger, she means a little more space in the living and dining room.
I did not know what to say to her. After thinking about it for a while, I felt disappointed that I'm working on setting up a new space for us to live in, in a nicer area of the city than where she lives, and she tells me this.
What do you think? am I making a drama? what would you do?
As a little background... We have been together for three years total; we've had issues in the past and broke up a few times. However, we got back together recently, for good. I bought the house before we got back, she saw it too and liked it very much.
To top it off, before we had this talk about the house, I asked her to imagine me giving her the ring and what she would say... her answer: "I don't know, I would freeze, not knowing what to do". I thank her for being honest, but I guess she's not all that willing to marry yet... I don't know.