So I dated a girl from nearly 3 years. I went to college and things started to fall apart so she dumped me last spring. It was pretty rough, but it was a clean break, no talking or hanging out after. Seven months went by and we texted maybe 2 times, just a few messages asking how the other was doing. Since then, we have both been in another relationships. After I break up with my new girlfriend, I get a call two days later from her saying that she is in the town where I go to college and wants to meet up. I went in with a horrible attitude but it actually ended up being a great time and we talked for over an hour, when she informed me that she had also just broken up with her new boyfriend. It has been about six weeks since and she texts me anywhere from 3 to 5 times a week and we have met up for coffee 3 times. It really seems like she is into me, hardcore flirting, reminiscing about our relationship, telling me how much she misses my family and other things we used to do together, etc.. Also, she has told me that she has went on one date with another kid that she likes but is unsure if she wants to date him because he is a big partier (something she was never into). At first I thought all she wanted to be was friends, but she talks to me a lot for just wanted to be friends, especially after barely talking at all for seven months, and I don't know what to think about her telling me about his other kid.
I don't know that I want to date her but I don't know how long this can keep up, talking so much and meeting up every now and then.
Sorry for the long write up, any opinions are appreciated.