should i act on these signs... and when?

[jfizzler]

me and my girlfriend have been split since march, the break up was completely out of the blue, i caused it... she ended it.

i have always known i made a huge mistake and i really want her back, at first i was told there was no chance and that we could stay friends, after me going into panic mode and texting her constantly for a second chance, she told me to leave her alone, which i did for a month or so, after this i started to contact her again and she agreed, two months after the break up we met up for a drink, she has always asked about my love life and when she found out i had been with someone she began txting the person i had been with saying that i was with her having sex and that she was amazing even though we were sat in a bar. she does have a new partner and later on in the night her partner turned up at the bar, when i stormed off she followed me begging me to stay. we ended up arguing yet again over txt the next day and she said that we were a lost cause and should go our seperate ways. i wasn't happy with that but agreed, two weeks later she wanted to meet again at a festival we were both going too to give me some belongings of mine back, i did meet and we had one drink in a club and then i left.

after that, things have been looking up, she re-added me on facebook after deleting me, she still constantly asks about my love life and we have met again since as mates. i have stopped contact as much as i can as i want to try and let her get on with her life with her partner even though i want her back.

i have been carrying on with my life and haven't heard from her for at least a month until the other night i put some photos on my facebook and she out of the blue txted me commenting on how i have changed since we were together and she became very flirty towards the end of the night, she doesn't seem happy from what i can see with facebook statuses and when we spoke about not talking to each other much lately, i explained i wanted to leave her too it and be happy which she replied that if i want to see her i should ask and that i don't invite her out, could these be signs she misses me? there could be a chance and do i act or leave it???

[jimbobob]

No, she doesn't miss you. Forget about this stupid bitch who tried to sabotage your chance with your previous girl. She doesn't miss you, she is just ****ing around with you. She sees that you actually have a life outside of her and wants to control you again. Sever all contact with her for atleast a year or longer.

[BackUpOrGetStng]

Do not initiate any contact with her. When she contacts you again(she will), tell that you'd be willing to try the relationship out again, but if that's not what she wants then you don't want to talk to her at all anymore.