Originally Posted by
devonbrown
You have never talked to her. You see her in the back preparing food. You haven't fallen in love. You think she's hot. That's the extent of it. It is a crush, just like you used to have in school. Move along...
That's an assumption and not always true. It's not always about looks. I've been attracted to a few average looking women, but the attraction was strong because, I think, they appeared confident, which is VERY intriguing to me.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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