Hi everyone, I created this post to see what my options to my situation might be.
First of all i have been in a relationship with my girl for over a year. Yes we have had our ups and downs just like every couple do.
Were both 18 years of age and both graduated High school, now attending College.
We have had a pretty strong relationship since the day we got together, but now i have a feeling its turning in to obsession.
We have a cell phone plan together and she basically uses that against me. She demands me tell her when i text or call someone. And if i refuse to talk to her about it she will go online and look at all of my text messages and calls. I understand being jealous or worried if i don't talk to her for a duration of time. But this is a every day...(every hour) thing. I'm scared that her obsessiveness is going to ruin our relationship, I've tried talking to her about my issues but all it does is upset her.
Also, I have never lied to her nor cheated on her. Never even a curse word in her direction. I don't understand what im doing to make her be like this. I don't want to leave her or anything but I'm afraid I've run our of options.
Yes I'm young and inexperienced but i know that i love her with all of my heart. I try to over look these things but after 3 months of trying to over look it i have no other choice but to ask for advice. I guess my next option is to leave her.
Any kind of advice is welcome.
Thank you in advanced
- Sincerely
Dmedlin23