This may sound cheesy (and clingy but I guess we both are) my boyfriend has sent me a good morning sms every single day for well over a year, although we were pretty solid before it all started
"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley
Not a month and a half man. . .not that long. Talk about major buildup just to be let-down when you realize that face to face you might not be compatible. Online dating is the tool to connect you, after a few brief chats you need to start face-to-face in order to see if you''re actually compatible. Chatting for 6 weeks is painfully long.
I've done a lot of regular and online dating. At the beginning of online dating, I thought like you, patience is key. This is wrong. After a half-dozen or so meetings I learned its far more effective to meet as soon as you can for a 30 minute coffee to break the ice. If you've met once already what is the holdup?
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"All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley
your wasting time, i bet you if you ask her for a drink or a bite to eat shes gonna blow you off and say some other time, ask a week later you'll get same response. 1.5 months ya seen her once...find another one. i still say people are online for 3 reasons...1 they want attention, 2 or they do have busy lives. 3, they are just chicken shit wish washy dont konw wtf they want. u got number 3.
I also do internet dating. I talk to the girl online then by phone for 6-8 hours before I decide to meet her in person. I have to ask her specific questions before I can figure out if she's worth meeting. But those 6-8 hours happen in about 7-9 days of time. Then we meet in person in a public place.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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