Wow, im_in_love, that was pretty bold and judgemental of you! I didn't find her post annoying, but some people are "easily annoyed" which might make you a difficult person to be around anyways yourself!! Your post was so RUDE!!!!
By all means, DO NOT LISTEN TO Im_in_love, they clearly DO NOT KNOW HOW TO GIVE ADVICE OR KNOW WHAT THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT!!
I'm sure you are a "sweet girl" and men take advantage of that, so do other people sometimes. So, Sweetgrl, what do you want out of these guys? A relationship? Someone to talk to? Do you really want a nice guy? Because, as mentioned on here, nice guys are usually the mature ones...and not all mature men, are nice...depends on the guy. Where are you meeting these guys? A bar? Through mutual friends? Are you too clingy or get attached to easy? These are things to ANALYZE (Yes to im_in_love, ANALYZE) ABOUT YOURSELF, just not about every move the guy makes. I think all women analyze things, some more than others. I also think confidence has something to do with it. If you need to build your confidence, work on that...if not, then not sure what the problem is. Try not to OVER-analyze what they do or don't do. Try to meet them half way on the effort, not all the way. And if you think they just want one thing, move on ....guys are guys, and when they are younger most of them are sowing their wild oats until they have matured and are ready for more, or someone captivates them, and their heart, and they feel more for them. Start off just being friends, and try to only be friends...that might help you get to know the guy/or guys to decide if this is really someone you want to date or have more with.
“Your intellect may be confused, but your emotions will never lie to you.”~“I have never been lost, but I will admit to being confused for several weeks”