Breakup letter - Really Need Help

[stripydan]

Hey guys, i've been off FB for about a week and feel like i'm on heart detox or something - all I needed to do was put it down. I've realised how dramatic FB can be during breakups - it's a virtual living hell. I used to go on her page because there's some sort of stupid emotional connection involved.. even if pain is part of the agenda. It was slowing down my healing process... In fact, this week is the best i've felt for the whole 5 months of using NC!! I had a couple of bad days where I felt the urge to keep tabs on her out of morbid curiosity.. but with my brothers help i've managed to stop myself.

By the way, I was recommended an add-on the other day called ex-blocker, it hides everything related to your ex without the hassle of removing or altering anything.. so if I have to be online for any reason that may be worth a try. All seems to be going alright so far...will update you all on my progress soon!

[surfhb]

Great! Good luck !

Facebook is a really bad thing for many. Many wont admit it though.

[stripydan]

So, it's been three weeks now since I got that letter from my Ex and things have changed a lot. I have a new girl who texts me all the time and we're meeting up soon, she is really attractive and intelligent and we keep flirting with each other. I still think about my ex sometimes but feel like i'm 'over' her since avoiding her. Who knows, maybe me and this new girl will be in a relationship someday in the future - but i'm just framing everything as fun with her for now and taking things slowly. She is also older than me and since i'm a very loyal guy, maybe a girl of this background is more compatible for me anyway. Will have to wait and see what happens and continue working on myself.

By the way I don't feel as though the new girl is a rebound, because it's been about a year since I saw this ex anyway. After moving on I don't think I would want my ex back, she treated me like dirt. It's amazing how different things become when you meet new people...