I've read that some dominant guys want their partner to be dominant as well. And many guys who appear dominant are just pretending to appear more attractive.
Truly dominant guys like to be dominant all the time. Other guys are called "switch" because they like to switch and sometimes be submissive, just for a change of pace. So the correct group of terms is: dominant, switch, and submissive.
And these don't necessarily imply BDSM either. So don't make assumptions. It's just about who initiates actions.
One has to be really careful with the dominant people who are into BDSM, because sometimes they are hiding really bad insecurity problems, and might turn out violent. Proceed with caution.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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