Another easy target for crappy dudes:
* Women who only like shallow traits. Because it's easy for men to act and give women shallow traits. The "real deal" takes real work.
Let's think this through. So the guys that repel you are:
- Dependable
- Average looking
- Loving, kind
- Good listeners
- Average talkers
- Faithful
None of these were on your list above, so these traits must repel you. Is that right?
Andstuff, please explain how these traits lead to a long-lasting, fulfilling, non-dysfunctional, healthy relationship.
- Charismatic
- Fun
- Popular
- Good looking
The traits above are all entertaining. But they don't do much for a long-term relationship. Once the honeymoon period is over, what keeps the relationship going? Nothing. On this forum, most of us give advice to support a long-lasting relationship. If you just want short fling after fling with gorgeous, shallow men, just say that.
Last edited by bulrush; 08-11-11 at 05:25 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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