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Thread: I dont know whats going on...

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    I dont know whats going on...

    hey there. I have been seeing this guy since late june/ early july. We have only been physical. He had a previous bad relationship and said that he wanted to wait before going ahead. but recently he just left for uni. everything was great until i went to visit him. then ever since i have come back he hardly talks to me. What do i do? He says he likes me and would hate to see me go... but then he just ignores me? help please! i really dont know what to do do i wait for him or do i just leave him?

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    You're a booty call. You've been giving yourself to him and asking nothing in return for months. He doesn't want a relationship, he is just telling you sweet nothings to keep the "no strings attached" sex around.

    You've been played, sorry hun.
    "All is fair in love and war." - Francis Edward Smedley

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    He is at uni. He could be very busy. Why don't you call him? Don't text, just call him. Or you could be a booty call.
    I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
    (Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)

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