1. Online dating on most websites is, sucky at best. But you have to know what to look for. I've been very happy with online dating and I have high expectations.
2. I avoid any girls that look like supermodels. The general rules is they are: a) full of themselves, b) crazy or c) have unrealistic expectations taken from movies or romance novels. I can find a nice looking girl who is reasonable much more easily.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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