How do you actually know that he is going on business trip? It is possible that there is NO business trip but he could be meeting soooooooooooo many different women and having sex with them all the time?
He probably think that, if he keep on giving you money, buying things for you then, you'll be happy and will not leave him.
I know that a lot of my posts make you laugh, guys
I am glad that you are stronger people than I am...
Then don't leave and shut up about it for goodness sakes. It's more than obvious you will not leave him so quit whining about his activities when he's not with you and showering you with material things, paying for your education and putting a roof over your head.
Google "gold digger" and there will be a photo of you under the definition. O.o
Stop!
As for being married or not. If your state does not recognize common law marriage then you will have zero rights to anything should he break up with you. If you are married you will have the rights to half his assets unless he has an iron clad pre-nup in place. I wasn't talking about the actual marriage license but rather your rights as a wife/mother compared to a lover/mother.
Now go learn to put up with his porking the willing porkers and try to be a happy camper with what you've been handed on a silver platter.
Last edited by Wakeup; 17-11-11 at 12:10 AM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
You. Are. An. Idiot. As if enough people haven't said that already on this thread. You love him because he gives you material things like trips. You stay with him because you want those trips again, and you don't really care if he cheats on you.
Polls show that 30-50% of men cheat. Accept he's cheating, get on with your life, because you said you don't have the will to leave him. Accept that you are NOT special to him, because he cheats on you. He is nice to you so he can get sex. Accept that this is the best you can do, because you have low self-esteem, and you can do nothing to change that. Accept you are sad, because you won't change things to be happy, because you don't like change.
If you are pissed off now, PM me and tell me.
Last edited by bulrush; 17-11-11 at 02:27 AM.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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I am glad you were specific about your fears. Because now you know what your fears are, you can fix them.I feel so sad, upset and lonely because of my relationship going on.
I am afraid of being lonely.
I am afraid that I wont have anyone better than him.
I am so scared that I am going to be 30 next year and i dont have kids.
I am afraid not to be able to love anyone else; i am afraid not to find someone else.
Even though I am very attractive, I have a low self-esteem.
And honestly I am afraid of the changes...
I am afraid to lose a man whom a lot of women find successful...
It's possible. But what I do is I simply choose to make good decisions. How I manage my money, my life, who I date, who my friends are. I look for positive people, who don't cheat on me. I actively make good decisions to steer my life in a direction I want. You seem to be very passive, having no degree yet, and having little or no job prospects, which means no money to make yourself independent.Do you guys read "Secret" by Rhonda Byrne? If yes, do you believe that we send out thoughts to universe and attract things in our lives?
Maybe I am being negative a lot of times and that's why attract this stuff in my life. Maybe i constantly think that he cheats. and that's why it happens...
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
(Please note, we give the best advice we can based on the information given in a post. For better advice, please include the age of all romantic partners.)
[QUOTE=bulrush;779954]You. Are. An. Idiot. As if enough people haven't said that already on this thread. You love him because he gives you material things like trips. You stay with him because you want those trips again, and you don't really care if he cheats on you.
Polls show that 30-50% of men cheat. Accept he's cheating, get on with your life, because you said you don't have the will to leave him. Accept that you are NOT special to him, because he cheats on you. He is nice to you so he can get sex. Accept that this is the best you can do, because you have low self-esteem, and you can do nothing to change that. Accept you are sad, because you won't change things to be happy, because you don't like change.
Thanks for all that dirt that you showered me with!!!