me and my gf have been dating for 2 yrs. about 6 months ago we started hanging out with a gay guy and his straight roomate. my gf really grew attached to these guys for some reason and spending alot of time at there house. she would go over for coffee in the am and go over to their place a lot. the gay roomate works and the straight one doesnt.my gf is a nurse and works 3 12hr shifts a week. about 3 months ago on her days off she would hang out at their house until to gay one would leave for work. her and the straight guy would spend time alone over there or they would come to our place and hang out. they would go shopping together, to the beach, lunch and other activities many of which me and her use to do together. everyday shes off she hangs out with him constantly. its the the point that i dont even want to come home from work bc i know hes at the house. ive began to become a lil withdrawn in our relationship bc i cnt stand her hanging out with this guy all the time. she'll say shes going to the store and stop by to see them or pick up the guy and take him with her. we have oto make alone time bc i work full time and im going to school. our time together is usually rushed or she trys to invite this guy to come with us. i feel like the third wheel in my own relationship. they make descisions about the our house without me knowing and its become a burdan to my relationship. weve gotten in numerous fights about it and its almost broken us up. she claims im trying to change and control her and im not letting her be herself. she also says shes a tom boy(which she sorta is) and that she just preffers guy friends and theres nothing for me to worry about. ive told her i dnt mind them hanging out but asked her to limit her time with him and be respectful and considerate about my feeling in the situation. i dnt know what to do. ive even talked to the guy about it and he really doesnt do anyting. i need some advice on what to do. i am almost certain theres nothing sexual going on, although my imagination is led to wonder while im at work, but the amount of attention this guy gets over me makes me uncomfortable. im just looking for some input on the situation