Online dating, want to get back in touch!

[Peter_1981]

I have been doing some online dating, and met a girl the Sunday before last, where we went for a coffee. We then went to see a film on the following Tuesday. We talked in the week and I asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner on the weekend, we arranged to go out on Sunday. On Saturday she messaged me saying that she couldn't do dinner because she forgot that she had other plans. So we arranged to have lunch instead. Then in the morning she cancelled that because she had been out very late, but suggested going for a walk. I then texted her saying that unfortunately I had other plans, so I couldn't go for a walk (I was going to my brothers for tea). She then called and we arranged for her to come over and watch a film, which she did, was nice, but nothing romantic. I then walked her to the station and asked her if she wanted to get dinner the next week, but she said she was fully booked up. I texted her the next morning, and she didn't reply, so I felt she wasn't very interested, then she replied in the evening, but a text that made no opening for a reply. I really felt like she wasn't interested, given all the cancellations etc, so to stop myself texting, I deleted her number and messages (I know a little dumb!). Now I regret that, but the problem is, to get back in touch, either she gets in touch with me, or somehow I message her online on the dating site, but of course that makes me look weird :-) hmmm maybe I am to have got into this situation So any advice on what I should do would be appreciated!

Thanks

[smackie9]

That is the thing about on line dating....you are not the only one taking her out for dinner. It's obvious she is going out on other dates. Drop her. If there wasn't any kind of spark then there is no point in continuing with her. plenty of fish in the sea.

[singma33]

I have been doing online dating for 4 months now.
I met few people, but some are similar situations as you. I think that just means that they aren't interested so you should move on.
Internet dating is like shopping.. as one of the guys I met said!! So they are quite picky as there are so many people out there.
But it can work sometimes. I met someone a month ago and I have been seeing him since. It hasn't gone anywhere yet but so far good!

So don't give up but if you try too hard searching you won't meet anyone.