Hey all, thanks for everybodies response. It is very much appreciated!
As for my problem, i think that maybe it is because i am not ready to date anyone or meet anyone new yet.. I still miss my ex but no matter what i do its not going away
I tried staying home alone for months to try heal.. That made me feel worse than ever. I tried getting out and seeing friends.. That doesnt work. I still feel terribly angry over my breakup and i am still in the phase of dreaming for revenge over my broken heart.
There is nothing i found to be helping at all. So i decided to try see other people.
I will respond to a mans text if he texts me, wont be right away as i am always busy nowadays, but i will respond to them. If he says he misses me .. I dont return it, i just say thankyou and be polite.. If he says he cares about me i ask why.. I dont act completely head over heels like they do, i wont be texting them like they do me.I have told men that this isnt what i like or that will win me over. I mentioned that in my first post.
I told this certain man that he was moving too fast, that i wasnt over my ex completely and that if he wanted to hang out, then he would need to move very slow. I even told him that guys who come on too strong scare me off pretty easily and that i like a man who has time for me, but also time for other things.. And he still does it..
I have completely been turned off now and i dont think there is any going back. I havnt replied to him today and debating whether to text and tell him he moved too fast and i now dont feel the same as i did.
No, he didnt sleep at my house. lol He works away and got called into work on the saturday.
One thing i wonder, is if i dont like men who are nice to me, because of lack of confidence, lack of self worth. I dont FEEL like i have no self worth, yes some days i feel better than others, sometimes i feel like nobody will ever want to be with me, sometimes i feel on top of the world! But usually i feel okay. How do i know if this is why i want the men that are not interested? If i dont feel like i need help with my confidence or self worth.. How do i know how to make it better?