Ok, so I've been with my bf for a year and a half in a long distance relationship. We meet about once a month when he comes to my hometown where he has an apartment.
At the start of our relationship, we used condoms, but after 2-3 months I started using birth control pills so we didn't need and use any condoms since then.
He came to my hometown 5 days ago, but the first few days he went out with his guys or invited his friends over and we didn't see each other.
Last night we saw each other and I spent the night at his place. In the morning I began to clean his bedroom and I found an unused condom near his bed. I asked him what's the deal with it and he said he doesn't know, that maybe it was lost under the carpet from when we used them..like a year ago???
And the condom wasn't under the bed, it was near it, under his jeans. When I picked them up I saw it.
I don't believe him. What do you think? I didnt want to start a huge fight because we're already been fighting a lot recently and didnt want to ruin things again, but I am really worried..