Been seeing a girl who wants me as her b/f. We talked alittle about it and I had said I feel no need to rush anything because after a month I'm still deciding if she's datable material...can't figure somone out in 2 or 3 weeks. She kept bringing up the meet my dad deal, so I did. Family seems nice. shes 26, I'm 28.
I've had some bad experiances rushing stuff with women with kids so I'd rather chill a little and go at what ever the pace is.
She did say she would wait as long as she has to for me....I kinda find that funny since I see her on average 3 times a week normaly at least.
Do some women just want the "offical title" more then seeing if the guy is really a good match? Shes stated she wants me, maybe I'm more on the fence trying to give her a shot since I normaly go for wildly easy women and it always ends up I'm single again so I tried somthing different.
I guess now I kinda feel pressured a little and in the past I've peaced once I feel pressured. There's no competition, she just wants the title...went to extent of using a picture of "us" and changed her FB profile pic. I myself have stayed away from FB because I just don't need that crap in my life, only check if someone finds me etc.
She says things like do you want me? I told her I wanted some time. Last time I asked a girl to be my g/f after 2 months I got shot down big time and I'm wondering if thats affecting kinda now. I'm over the girl who shot me down and still see her few times a month due to where she works and me bing a home improvement shopper, but I don't go to see or talk with her anymore. I'm solely seeing this girl but normally use to women getting stupid after 1-2 months and this new girl does seem different.
How can I let my guard down more to her and let her into my life more so I can be her b/f because she is good hearted and after all thats whats gonna last right?
lil advice thats all thanks