It's kind of sad to think that a lot of (if not all or most) guys could have sex with anyone that's a female even if he has no feelings towards her. My ex-boyfriend, whom I've been broken up with for 3 years already and has a girlfriend, would sleep with me if he had the chance. He's the one who broke up with me and according to him, I'm just a friend, but he still makes advances every once in a while. Why?? I told him I can only see him as a friend...I have no attraction towards him at all, and if he feels the same way towards me, how can he sleep with me without being grossed out? Because I know I would. I lost all my attraction towards him. Anyway, this part doesn't really matter...I could care less about my ex. It's just sad to see that guys are like this...how would you know if a guy sleeps with you because they actually like you and find you attractive, and not just because they're "horny"? In order for me to sleep with someone, I have to feel chemistry and attraction. Otherwise...there's no way I can see them in that way.