I split up with my boyfriend of 6 months at the end of January. The reason was that it was long distance & he was putting in zero effort. He knew I had strong feelings for him & was ending it because I found it too difficult with the distance & his lack of effort.
Three days after we split it was my birthday & he didn't send me a Happy Birthday text or anything. Four days later it was his birthday & I text him saying I know I never meant anything to him & shouldn't be wasting my time but I wanted to wish him a Happy BIrthday. He replied that I did mean something to him but when I replied asking what changed he didn't reply.
A week later I text him telling him I miss him & got no reply. That was a week ago and in the early hours of this morning (valentines day) he text me wishing me a happy valentines day with lots of kisses. What does this mean? Is he trying to be funny? Does he feel bad & is just trying to make it seem like he cares? Is he trying to tell me he still wants me? I don't know whether or not to reply or what to put. I want him back but only if he puts more effort in.