Keeps on asking why I like her

**vashti** · 26-02-12, 03:41 PM

It sounds to me as if she wants some sort of clarification of your relationship status. I think she is basically pointing out that since there is no formal agreement between you, she isn't obligated to you.

But I think she WANTS to be.

**GreatMonkey** · 27-02-12, 06:01 AM

Wants to be? As in left alone? Or for me to do something?

**HeartIsAching** · 27-02-12, 06:18 AM

Wants you to formalize the relationship - as in ask her to be exclusive/your girlfriend.

**GreatMonkey** · 27-02-12, 06:22 AM

Alright. Thanks for the help guys.

**HeartIsAching** · 27-02-12, 08:16 AM

Be aware though - if that IS what she wants, she's going about it in a very passive-aggressive way. Could be a red flag.

**GreatMonkey** · 27-02-12, 08:32 AM

Red Flag? Never heard that term before.

**HeartIsAching** · 27-02-12, 09:10 AM

It means it might be cause for concern.

**GreatMonkey** · 27-02-12, 09:29 AM

Alright. I'll keep it in mind. Thanks for the help ya'll.

**smackie9** · 27-02-12, 10:08 PM

Ya you have to make a note that she might be waking you up in the middle of the night freaking out on you asking why you haven't put a ring on her finger yet....true story (happened to a friend of mine).

Also another friend of mine that ended up with a girl that he had known for 10 years, after six months of dating she wanted a marriage proposal, he didn't lol. We both agreed that the 10 years of knowing each other shouldn't be included as part of the dating timeline. Dating and being intimate with each other is a whole new relationship.

**angelsnairwaves** · 28-02-12, 05:32 AM

she isnt looking for "i love you". she wants to know why you like her BESIDES the superficial reasons. you only said things about her looks. do you only like her for her looks? she wants to know what you like about her PERSONALITY. seems like a no brainer to me.

**angelsnairwaves** · 28-02-12, 05:33 AM

if you do like her for more than her looks, then tell her. if that isnt good enough, then yes, she has insecurity issues. then thats on her and you need to decide if you are okay with dating an insecure person and having to reassure them all the time.

**vashti** · 28-02-12, 05:51 AM

I'm glad someone besides me doesn't think she is necessarily psychotic.

Rep for angelsairwaves.

**GreatMonkey** · 28-02-12, 10:13 AM

Actually in the first post i did say that I like her aggressive nature she has. That is the best way to say about her personality. And she said that still wasn't good enough. But ever since she brought up the ring on her finger I'm not aloud to touch her at all. Even if my hand brushes against her breasts she slaps me.

**searock** · 28-02-12, 10:14 AM

Why haven't you formalized the relationship yet? Clearly it's what she wants. Do you?

**GreatMonkey** · 28-02-12, 07:21 PM

On sat I did but she wants a marriage ring to formalize the relationship.

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